New neighbors and lot pics
We met in the cul-de-sac of our new little neighborhood, ate food, and then went up to their lot for a quick ceremony with shovels. Such a cute idea and it was fun to meet friends of our new friends.
Seeing their lot with a fence around it in phase one construction mode made me so excited to break ground! Their lot is pretty much identical to ours. Both lots are shaped like rectangles. Deep back yards – another rarity for my neck of the woods. I am so grateful that the timing worked out and we were ready to jump on our lot when it popped up for sale. And that I was somehow able to convince my husband (who swore that we were never going to build) that we needed to build. Still don’t know how I pulled that off but I’ve patted myself on the back for it every day since.
Yeah well we tried to pull one of those off and failed miserably. Instead I got this picture of me doing a sad little jump with my butt sticking out to the the side and all of my hair in my face and a husband who wasn’t in the mood for re-takes. Oh well. Addie looks cute and the two of us have the happy part down. We could have got there. 20 pictures later… I’m confident we could have got there.
So I know that I’ve now bored you all to death with pictures of DIRT but oh how I love this dirt! And I needed to post this for my own family records. You know. For the someday when I have time to make all of my family blog posts into books. I might be 65 before I get around to it, but someday it will happen.
We signed all of the construction loan papers tonight and these are the last pictures of the lot before we break ground (if all goes as planned – two more weeks!). That reminds me of the show The Money Pit with Tom Hanks and Shelley Long (“two weeks!”). Love that show. Love my lot. Love that pretty soon this dream of mine is going to start becoming a reality.
And now the time has come for me to stop boring you all with pictures of dirt and bath tubs.
At least for a few days. :)
Tub advice and Utah pics
A couple more of the wild diaper bandits:
Star Behavior Charts re-born!
They are allowed one warning because perfection is an impossible goal, but usually all I have to say is: “oh – I hope that isn’t a bad attitude I hear because you wouldn’t want to not get a star tonight!” and wa-la! All is calm again.
We also came up with some rewards if the girls meet their goals. My girls LOVE to sleep in the same room in their bunk beds. We stopped letting them do this on school nights because they can’t control themselves and they stay up WAY too late talking and playing. So during the school year sleeping in the same room is a weekend treat. Since it’s summer and the girls can stay up later and sleep in a bit I told them that if they get all of their stars each day, they can sleep in the same room that night. Works great because they have something that reinforces their good behavior instantly each night. If they get all of their stars for the whole week, they get to pick one of the other rewards we came up with together. Playdate with a friend, yogurt or cupcake (we love visiting two little shops for these fun treats), movie with popcorn (my girls watch movies all the time but if Kenny and I actually sit down and watch one with them and pop popcorn it’s suddenly a special treat), and dinner of choice (McDonald’s here we come). When I first made these charts one reward was a surprise at Target. DUMB idea. We were buying a new toy every weekend. Now I make sure the rewards are things that are easy to pull off. They are actually things we often do anyway – but it’s good for the kids to know they are special treats and not always just a given. Am I right or am I right? :)
The stars velcro on and my girls love putting on their own stars. They can’t wait to do it at the end of the day! Even though it took a little more time, I’m so glad I made a separate chart for each of my girls.
These charts have yet to let me down. Like with most things involving children, consistency is key! I’ve found that a little extra motivation can be a very powerful thing. :)
Anyone else doing something special to keep kiddos on track this summer? I’d love to hear about it!
p.s. You can see my original Star Behavior Chart post here (my girls look so little!). If you are in my current camp and have NO time to come up with a cute color coordinated system like this one, don’t fret! You can always re-create the three kids vs. two kids Star Behavior Charts I made after I had baby #3. Those worked like a charm as well. :)
And while we’re on the subject of having no time – do you love that we are over half way through June and I still have my Spring blog header up!? Nice. At this rate I might as well skip a Summer header and jump straight into Fall. Of course here in San Diego our seasons all feel the same anyway. Guess I’m not that behind afterall. ;)
Recent and Random
See the silver clock on this picture of my mantel from a couple of years ago? It was the first thing I bought for our current house about ten years ago. When our house was being built I started getting so excited to finally decorate a place of my own. Kenny and I had only lived in apartments up to that point and all of our furniture was either leftovers from family members or wedding gifts (and we were so poor we were lucky to have what we did!). But Law School was almost over and Kenny and I both had real jobs waiting for us in California. So I decided it was time to break free of our poor struggling student chains! I went to Pottery Barn (because what better place to stage a break out) and bought this clock. It was around $45 and I remember feeling like it was such a splurge! I winced at the checkout counter when the lady rang it up and days later I almost took it back. I felt so guilty spending that much on a clock! But I didn’t take it back and it is still in my house today and is a fun reminder of how exciting it was to finally pick out my own home decor for a place of our own.
So when I was out shopping last week and just happened upon a Pottery Barn (it’s a true mystery how I always seem to end up in that place…)
Isn’t it fun!? Found it at Home Goods. When Kenny saw it he said “oh great. You bought another stacker so you can stack more stuff.” He clearly doesn’t get it. I want to paint my “stacker” and make fun new labels for whatever I do decide to stack inside. It’s located next to our garage door so I’m thinking it will be great for cell phones, keys, wallets, miscellaneous stuff the kids need each day. One more thing on my list of future projects!
Today was our first day of summer and Ellie spent in on the beach! She is doing her lifeguard camp again (pics are from last summer) so she is one happy girl. And my car is one sandy mess. As it will be for the next two weeks.
Of course once Ellie was home the kids entertained each other all afternoon and it made me so happy! I was just soaking in the fact that we didn’t have anywhere we needed to rush to. Nowhere we needed to be. Just free time to do whatever we wanted! Kids played in the backyard.
I turned on my go to for music – “Pandora” – internet radio on the TV. I have it set to play “Lenka” music. I love Lenka and it plays not only her songs but anything else that sounds at all similar to her. I did a little cleaning…
I pulled out my list from last January and updated it a bit. Slowly but surely I’ll tackle all of the spaces I want to organize this year. Summer is a great time to organize. Right along with Winter and Spring and Fall.
Thanks for the little things
School Days
Goin’ Fishin’
Another amazing tribute to my dad was this picture that Del Parson painted of him to hang on the college campus. Del Parson is an amazing artist who paints a lot of portraits for the LDS church. My mom was worried about how it would look and we all kept teasing her saying “Del paints pictures of Jesus for crying out loud! I’m sure dad’s portrait will turn out just fine!” ;)
My mom looked so beautiful the day of the party. She is so happy my dad is retiring. We all are! This is a picture of her with two of her best friends. Their daughters are two of my best friends and they are like second moms to me. :)
Then I asked the guys to get in a picture and my brother decided to be a dork and pose. So I asked him to knock it off and to just sit up and smile…
Several pictures later I finally got this one. Thank you Austin. It’s always such a pleasure getting you to be serious. **Notice my husband plastered on a smile and didn’t move in all three pics. He has been trained well.
New house update – designing my office!
I love this wrap around desk. I also like the look of the open shelves above, but that forces you to be really tidy with your storage! Still debating if I want open or closed cabinetry in my office. Maybe a mix?
At one point I debated a separate desk/homework area for the kids – something similar to the pictures above, but if I do an island I think that will function well for a kids’ space.
I want to leave room on one wall for some sort of inspiration board and a place to display current layouts I’ve done or art work from the kids. Love the yellow striped ceiling in this picture!
Our weekend – true story
I swear that’s all I did this weekend. Wash dishes. I could have taken ten pictures of the stacks and stacks of dishes I washed. And while I washed I thought about my sweet grandma who never had a dishwasher a day in her life. How did she manage? And then I thought about my kitchen plans for our new house which includes two dishwashers. And I wanted to weep for joy.
My new Project Life page protectors came in the mail. I ordered them in an attempt to motivate myself to scrapbook this summer. I don’t need new page protectors. But I do need some motivation. And some extra time would be a nice bonus.
My presentation went great last week – so much fun. (Thanks for all of your encouraging words!) It went so well in fact that I inspired myself to do a little organizing. ;)
and completely getting away with it because all it takes is one flash of this smile and his mother is so smitten that all is immediately forgiven.
Over 30 ways to organize your home
I know – have a toy, right!?
Clear organizers in the hutch to hold miscellaneous items like cords, decor, and remotes my husband won’t let me get rid of…
For when the girls and I are in the mood to get fancy. :)
I think I can…
(While these bags have been moved from the kitchen to the bedrooms they are still not unpacked and probably won’t be anytime in the near future. Aside from my laptop of course. Funny how I can always squeeze in a minute or two for blogging… I’m all about priorities…) :)
I spent the last two days downtown with my little dancers and all of their friends. Six hours of practice and waiting to practice on dress rehearsal day and six hours of dancing and waiting to dance on performance day (they put on the show twice).
I volunteered to stay the whole time and help entertain the little ones while they were waiting for their turn to dance. While most of the girls colored and played games, I put Addie right to work on her birthday thank you notes.
And it’s show time! Oh my word they were cute. SO cute. Both of my girls did a darling job. I didn’t take a single picture of them dancing because I didn’t want to take my eyes off of them and miss a thing. But this dance extravaganza weekend wore me out. I told Kenny tonight we are so NOT taking dance next year. And I mean it. Right up until I change my mind next week and sign the girls up again. The whole time I was watching the first show I was thinking about how many hours my parents spent watching me dance. I danced from age 4 all the way through college. All of the recitals, practices, football and basketball games, competitions… how did they do it!? Funny how much more you appreciate your parents once you become a parent yourself. (Love you mom and dad)
My girls still have two more weeks of school left and then life should finally calm down. At least that’s what I keep telling myself. I think I can make it to summer… I think I can I think I can….
I have something going on almost every night this week so I’m apologizing in advance if blogging is slow. One night I’m speaking in our ward (church group) on organization. I’ve done it before for another ward and it was so much fun. I’m excited. Once I start talking about organization it’s hard to get me to stop so my church friends are in for a long night. ;)