10 things to do now to ensure a more enjoyable {less stressful} December
Taking a quick break from all things Fall today to talk about another beloved season right around the corner. Did you know that there are only 79 days until Christmas!? It really will be here before we know it. I’m all about enjoying the season we are in and not rushing on to the next one, but here’s the truth — December is BUSY. And for me, sipping hot chocolate while driving around looking at Christmas lights in pajamas with my kids is much easier (and more enjoyable) when I’m not stressed about a million things that need to be done. In the past 10 years of being a mom I have had organized Decembers and not so organized Decembers and I’m a firm believer that organized Decembers are better! When I take the time to plan ahead and don’t have as much on my plate in December it’s much easier for me to relax and really enjoy the magic of the holiday season with my family. So. I sat down this weekend and starting making a list. And checking it twice. :) Here are 10 things I came up with that we can all start doing now to ensure a less stressful December.
1) Make a list of family/friends you are buying for and plan your budget. Nothing fancy. Just grab a notepad and write each person down and how much you are able to spend on them. Include everybody you want to get a gift for: family/friends/neighbors/teachers/kids’ friends/etc. (*I always buy a few extra gifts in case I accidentally forget someone I wanted to buy for.)
2) Start brainstorming gift ideas. This is especially helpful if you have little ones and are *helping* Santa. :) I like to have a place to jot down gift ideas whenever they pop in my head. This also helps me come up with ideas for my husband because he is so hard for me to buy for! I like to come up with something fun and different each year for friend/neighbor/teacher gifts so it’s helpful to have a few different ideas jotted down for them as well.
Here are a few past posts full of fun gift ideas to help you start brainstorming!
3) Set up a Christmas wrap station and organize your wrap supplies. Now is the time to get wrapping supplies in order. In our previous house I set up a Christmas wrap station in my son’s nursery (it was the only space I had!).
In our new house I have a cupboard in my office where I store wrapping supplies that I’m planning to organize soon and start putting to good use.
4) Start shopping! I love to shop but I have to say that I DREAD shopping in December. The mall is madness. Way too busy. Not worth it if it takes 20 minutes just to park your car! On-line shopping helps a lot with this but the best solution is to start your shopping early. Even if it isn’t completely done, having most of it figured out before Thanksgiving makes for a much better December!
5) Wrap as you go. The past two Decembers (because we were so busy building the house and then moving) I’ve spent Christmas Eve wrapping everything for my family. I always underestimate what a time consuming activity it really is to wrap every one of those gifts! This year I’m using my wrap station and I’m going to wrap as I go. As soon as I buy a gift I’m coming home to wrap it! When I’ve done this in the past, I wait to put bows/ribbons on them and write in small print on the back of the gift who it’s to and what it is to remind me a few days before Christmas. Then I can stick a bow/ribbon/tag on it and call it done! This year on Christmas Eve after the kids are in bed instead of being buried in gift wrap, I’ll be curled up on the couch with my husband watching It’s a Wonderful Life. :)
6) Start working on your Christmas cards. If you haven’t had family pictures yet and plan to send out cards this year, schedule them now. We just had our pictures taken on Friday and my goal is to have my cards addressed and ready to mail out before December 1st. Now is also the time to update your Christmas address list. Set aside a time this month to go through and make sure you have recent addresses and add any new friends/co-workers, etc. you want to send a card to.
7) Start planning for holiday parties if you entertain. If you are planning to have any type of get together during December now is the time to prepare! Make your guest list, plan your menu, decide how you want to decorate and what you’ll need to buy for the party.
8) Start making any homemade gifts you want to give this season. Every year I give my husband a calendar for his office full of current pictures of our kids. And every year I wait until December 20th to start working on it! Why oh why do I do this!? This year I am choosing the pictures I plan to use for his calendar this month. Then I can toss in a December picture in December and get that thing made and wrapped and under the tree early avoiding my annual mad dash to Kinkos praying that they can print my calendar overnight. :) If you plan to make any other gifts for loved ones this year, now is the time to start making them!
9) Plan ahead for Christmas Decorating. This part is fun to plan for! It’s a good time to assess what you have and what you might want to add this year to spruce up your house for the holidays. Especially if you plan on making something fun for your house. Most of the time DIY projects take longer than you think they will. Getting a jump start now on anything you want to make to decorate with (a wreath, tree ornaments, etc.) will allow plenty of time for any errors in your process that have you running to the craft store at 9:00 pm. :)
10) Spend some time thinking about Christmas traditions for your family and ways to make the season special. I like to plan activities to do with my kids that teach them the true reason for the season. We try to serve others often throughout the year with our kids, but this time of year it is especially important to find ways to serve and help others. (Planning to do a post in more detail about this at some point!) I also love setting up simple family traditions to do each year with my kids that make December feel extra special.
Like I said, I’m all about savoring and enjoying Fall. But a little extra planning during the next month will go a long way in helping us all have a much more relaxing December!
A sweet reminder
Fall in the kitchen
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Happy Tuesday everyone! Sorry for the delay in posting. I seem to have a lot of beautiful distractions in my life lately. They are the very best kind of distractions, but distractions none the less. :)
Here is a picture without the glass so you can see what’s on display without me looming in the shadows. Things are spread out a bit to accommodate for the cupboard doors.

Fall Console Table
Well. It has become crystal clear to me lately (as our summer ceases to cease) that I’m going to have to create my own Fall if I want to enjoy this beloved season. Fall isn’t happening outside in my neck of the woods so I’m going to make it happen inside. Starting with the console table!
Speaking of a pop of color, aren’t the coral roses beautiful!? Perfect addition to go with the rest of the coral in this room. I picked them up at the grocery store for 10 bucks. Kenny came home from work a few nights ago and I told him “you bought me roses today because you’re nice like that. Thank you! They’re beautiful and I love them.”
Sometimes we just have to take matters into our own hands. :)
The branch is from a tree in my area. I have to tell you my story. I get home with several branches I’ve cut and I find “the one” and I’m pruning it to go in my vase. I’m having quite the Martha Stewart moment feeling so impressed with myself for “bringing the outdoors in” when all of the sudden a HUGE green spider comes crawling off of the branch and onto my arm! I seriously screamed so loud! Scared me to death. The girls came running and saw the spider and they screamed too. I grabbed a napkin and killed that sucker so fast and then looked around at the total mess I’d made with dirt and branches all over my kitchen and had to laugh.
Martha moment was sweet while it lasted.
But now that it’s all behind me I have to say that I love my branch. Worth the near heart attack? I do believe so.
Now this table is such a happy spot when you come around the corner and into the family room. Having a bit of real decor in the house is making me excited to add more. This is such a fun time of year to nest. Are you a nester? I could stay inside my house all day long nesting. Organizing, decorating, cleaning. Ok.. maybe not the cleaning. But definitely the organizing and decorating. Too bad other things (like life) get in the way. :)
Dining nook chairs (and a rug!)
Some of you have been asking me if I ever found chairs to go with our table in the dining nook. I did! And forgot to share them with you. But I will now. Here they are. :) (*side note – this nook is so BRIGHT and sunny that I have a really hard time photographing it so excuse the poor photography!)
For chairs I ended up going with the Constance Metal Dining Chairs from Ballard Designs. I love them but I originally wanted something different because they are the same style of chair that I have in my formal dining room (just metal instead of wood). I tried out several wooden chair options but the varying colors of wood were clashing with the wood in the X base of the table and making it look too red. I didn’t take any pictures of my attempts, but trust me when I say – they weren’t looking very good. So I decided to go with metal and for some reason, the mixed metals don’t bother me like the mixed woods did.
I also tried the coral rug in my office/craft room and it looks good in there too so I decided that if I get tired of coral in the nook, I can always move it to the office.
Fashion Friday (preparing for Fall)
This is another Fall outfit I have pinned on my Clothes/Fashion board. Love it. I’m always drawn to solid colors, a great pair of jeans and boots with a fun, simple top/scarf/vest.
Very much like this combo as well. So even though I haven’t bought much in the way of clothes in over two years, I still feel like I have a lot of basics to wear this season. I can add a few fun things and combine them with my oldies but goodies for multiple looks. If the weather decides to cooperate that is.
Since I’m flashing back a couple of years I have to share these pics I found of my little buddy helping me with my Fashion Friday photo shoots…
Here’s a picture from this week to show that three years later my little guy is up to as much mischief as ever. He was playing hide and seek (his favorite!) with Ad and she could not find him anywhere. I finally started helping her and we searched high and low and finally found him hiding under the dining room bench. I was cracking up! I didn’t even know he could fit under there. So glad I had my phone with me at the time and caught the moment she found him. He was so proud that he’d out smarted his sister and had all of our attention.
Chore Charts – teaching kids responsibility
Friday Favorites
So many favorite things about this picture! Love my little buddy. Love that I got him in pajamas the night I took this picture. Love that football is on again. I’ll feel differently by the end of the season of course. When I’ve had my fill of never ending games dictating our schedule. But for now, it signals Fall and makes my husband in a fabulous mood. My husband in a fabulous mood is another favorite. He puts up with so much more of my antics when the Chargers are playing. And when the Chargers are winning? Not much I can’t get away with. :)
Speaking of my little buddy, here is my favorite Kole quote of the week: “mom, you know yesterday when I was being mean and slammed the door and you had to get mad at me? My BONES made me do it.”
I seriously laughed for 20 minutes. He would be such a well behaved kid. If it weren’t for those bones of his. Ha ha! :)
I know Christmas is still months away but in my book it’s never to early to start getting gift ideas! These Kidoozie car tracks have been such a hit with Kole. He loves to build all sorts of contraptions with them and then watch the cars race around and around. The tracks are so easy to assemble that even toddlers can put them together.
K. Remember how I told you I was loving HGTV’s show Fixer Upper? A cute couple (Chip and Joanna) fix up homes and she decorates them so beautifully. Darling family. Great show. Decorating ideas galore! Last night I landed on their website and Joanna has a blog! You need to check out the farmhouse they renovated. It’s amazing! If you like that style. Which I do.
This picture is from a post she wrote on Fall decorating. What a great idea to use a wreath as part of your centerpiece! Love her style. Love the show. A favorite of mine for sure. Check it out if you haven’t already!
Family room update (pops of coral)
Still loving the new floor lamp we scored for such a great deal over Labor Day. I’d love to add a small end table next to this chair too at some point. This is a great chair for reading (one of my girls is always in it with a book!) so it would be nice to have a place next to it to set things.
Quick blurry phone pic of my husband and our carpenter attempting to get this perfectly straight. Took almost two hours! Let’s just say this baby isn’t going anywhere for a while. :)
I haven’t added anything new to the kitchen. I’m too busy just trying to keep it clean! But I plan on styling it better and maybe trying to bring some of the coral accents in this space as well.
I’m also planning to add more greenery and just haven’t had time to do it. Thinking a fiddle leaf fig plant might look good in that left corner?
Like I said, progress since I last shared pics! Sorry if I just took up all of your free time that you didn’t really have with that post. :) If you have a question about a certain item let me know and I’ll answer in the comments.
Blog Books (best present ever!)
Have to share this with all of my blog friends today! Kenny and I celebrated our 17th wedding anniversary yesterday and he surprised me with the best present. Ever.
We have all had so much fun looking through everything this weekend. Remembering fun times. These books are such treasures to me.
Fashion Friday (striped sleeveless jersey dress)
What I love about this dress is that it’s so simple and basic. I can put any color of sweater/jewelry/shoes with it for a fun new look. Here are a few ways I’ve been wearing it…
This dress looks short on the on-line model (who has legs that go on for days!), but as you can see, on a shortie like me it’s actually knee length. :) Other than that it fits true to size.































































































































































