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Ellie

A party and a spotlight

Quick birthday re-cap for my 8 year old!  Last year for El’s birthday we kept things low key, so this year she wanted a big party with all of her friends.  She wanted to include everyone of course which meant there would be over 20 kids (which ruled out a party at our house) and there would be boys and girls (which ruled out the “snowflake pajama princess party” she originally came up with). We decided to just take the easy way out and have her party at Pump It Up – the inflatable party zone.  Or as my sister likes to say – “McDonalds play land on crack.”  Whatever you call it, this place never disappoints.

 Ellie was so excited to see her name on the board when we arrived.  I was so excited to know that everything would be taken care of and I could just relax and enjoy my girl.  She greeted each guest with a huge hug and a smile and wouldn’t go into the bounce zone until everyone got there.

 The kids had endless fun on all of the inflatables and before we knew it, it was time for pizza and cake!

 El has the sweetest group of friends.  She really does.  Darling kids – we just love each one of them.

The party was a huge success and Ellie definitely felt special which is always the goal.  :)

In fact, the whole family had a great time. 
 (Well – the four of us did.  Kole was home with a sitter.  Didn’t I mention wanting to just relax at the party and enjoy my girl?  Don’t feel too sorry for him.  He had a nice long, uninterrupted nap.  I wasn’t the only one who needed to re-charge from last week!)  
And here’s another simple thing I did to spotlight Ellie…
I thought it would be fun to use it to spotlight each of my kids (and Kenny too!) during their birthday months.  
I just developed some fun 5×7 pictures of Ellie through the years to hang up and display.  I can’t get enough of the baby pictures.  My baby is 8!  Unbelievable.  
Another quick, easy way to make my birthday girl feel special.  She has loved her little spotlight!
 And as for me, I am feeling much better!  (Thanks for your sweet, encouraging words!)  I know most moms can relate to the way I felt on Friday.  Motherhood is not for the weak!  Last week was the perfect storm but after a fun and restful weekend, I’m happy to say that we are back on track. 

My little boyfriend even decided to chill out a bit.  I think he knew his mommy needed a break!  

I’m off to go over my schedule and to-do’s for tomorrow!   Which will include a little organizing and a little scrapbooking.  And definitely a goal to exercise and eat better.  Well.  After I finish off Ellie’s cake of course.  I do teach my girls to never waste food…

:)

p.s.  This was Ellie’s second party at Pump It Up.  She had her 4th birthday party there too.  I was just looking through these pictures this afternoon… 
(Ellie – turning 4 at her Pump it Up party)
(Addison – almost 2)
{THEN}
{NOW}
My baby  is growing up.  And now I need a tissue.
Hope your week is off to a great start!  

xoxo, Erin
Ramblings

Friday Night Confessions

It’s Friday night and I’m exhausted.  I’ll spare you the details of my week since I’m not in the mood to re-live them, but let me just say that this week was way too busy for my taste.  And I’m so glad it’s behind me.

A few Friday night confessions:

This week:

My house wasn’t clean.
I didn’t feel organized.
My time management binder was tossed aside because there was no time to manage my time.
I didn’t look fashionable.  I spent most of the week running around in whatever was on my closet floor.
There is no “fashion friday” because there was no time to take pictures, not that I wore anything picture worthy anyway.
Kole was a pill.  It’s his new norm.
I cried twice.  For no specific reason other than that I was just BURNED OUT.
One night my kids ate bagels for dinner.
I didn’t get enough sleep.  (staying up way too late to get stuff done and up in the night with sick kids)
Kenny and I were snappy because we were both running on empty.
I ate a lot of chocolate.
And only exercised once.

The kids and I re-grouped this afternoon by staying home and getting the house back in order.  Well.  The kids played while I re-grouped and got the house back in order.  Then I started tearing into my closet.  And now I feel better.

Birthday party for El tomorrow.  It will be fun.  And next week will be better.

So glad I got that all off my chest.  :)

p.s.  Thanks for all of the sweet comments and e-mails.  They were a bright spot in my week!

xoxo, Erin
Ellie

Dear Ellie,

Today is your eighth birthday.  You are eight years old today.  I have to repeat it to myself to believe it.  Then I have to quickly stop repeating it because if I let myself digest that little fact my eyes start to burn.  I remember typing your birthday letter last year.  I was sitting on the same couch I’m sitting on now thinking that I just couldn’t believe you were turning seven.  And just like that – a whole year has flown by.  And now you are eight.  And you are amazing.  You really are Ellie.  There are so many thing I love about you.  I could write a book.

You and Addison are still as thick as thieves.  The two of you race home from school every day so that you can play play play.  Addison loves you so much and wants to do everything exactly the same as her big sister Ellie.  You set a great example for her to follow.  The sound of you two laughing is my favorite thing to hear.  Which is a good thing because I hear it a lot!  You take such good care of Addison – always watching out for her.  This morning you woke up to eight birthday balloons in your bed with a dollar in each one.  The first thing you said was “Ad!  Look!  The balloons have dollars in them!  I’ll have four and you can have four!”  It made me smile.  That is so like you.  Always thinking of Addison.

Kole completely adores you as well and you are crazy about him.  You are always so excited to get him up in the morning.  It’s like you’ve missed him all night and just can’t wait to see him.  Lately you have even been getting him out of his crib yourself.  Often before I’m really ready for him to be out of his crib.  :)  You two have such a special relationship.  When you are around his little eyes just light up.

I love that you are so happy Ellie.  I say this about you all the time but it’s true.  Whenever I hear the song “you are my sunshine” I instantly think of you.  You bring so much sunshine into my life.  And into your dad’s and your sister’s and your brother’s.  Your excitement for every little thing is contagious and it spreads to everyone around you.  We smile a lot because of you Ellie.

Your sense of humor is maturing.  And you are funny.  I mean really funny.  Your dad and I are always laughing about things you say and do.  You crack. us. up.  On a daily basis.  My favorite thing you said this year was “who says Kole has to be a boy just because some silly doctor says so?”  Your dad and I had a good laugh over that one.

You have developed such a love for reading this year.  It has been really enjoyable to see.  You stay up so late reading and often try to carry your book around with you everywhere we go during the day so that you can sneak in a page or two.  In the car, walking through the grocery store…  I hope your love for reading never ends.

You are such a huge help to me Ellie.  You are always completely aware of my mood/feelings.  Kole is a lot of work right now and you can always tell when I’m starting to feel tired or frustrated.  You quickly smile at me and say “I love you mom.”  And as soon as you do I instantly feel less tired and less frustrated.  Then you start to head up the stairs singing a little song you made up for Kole.  His little clue that it’s time to follow you upstairs to play.  I am always so grateful for your help with him and wonder every day how I would survive without it!

You are doing a great job in second grade this year.  Your teacher adores you and always tells me about the sweet things you do and say to your classmates.  How kind you are to everyone.  How you go out of your way to make people feel special.  How you are such a social, friendly, well-liked student.  She also tells me that you sometimes have a hard time focusing on your school work because you are so busy being kind and social.  Doesn’t surprise me one bit.  :)

One of the things I adore the most about you Ellie is your endless creativity.  I am always blown away by the things you come up with.  With just a laundry basket and some yarn you are able to create all sorts of magical contraptions for you and Addison to play with.  You are a master story teller and entertainer and your siblings are never at a loss for what to do when you are around.

I could go on and on about you Ellie but I’ll save my book for when you turn nine. :)  Which will sneak up on me altogether too quickly just like age eight did.  But I’m so incredibly grateful.  Grateful for your smile and your laughter and your love.  Grateful that such an amazing little person is my daughter.  Grateful for one more year I got to spend with you – my sunshine.

Happy 8th Birthday Ellie!

I love you so much.

xoxo,  mom

xoxo, Erin
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Sunny Side Up Organization Links

In an attempt to better organize this blog and to make it easier for all of you to find posts on specific organized spaces, I thought it would be fun to have a post that included links to all of the spaces I’ve organized and shared on my blog.  That way if you’ve been reading for a while now (thank you friends!) you can re-visit a past post when you are ready to organize a certain space in your home and need some ideas.  If you are popping in for the first time (hello and welcome!) this will hopefully make it easier to find specific organizing posts that will be helpful to you.  I’ll also keep this post on my sidebar and continue to update it with new spaces/items as I organize them.  So if you love to organize as much as I do, just click on a link and I will take you to a happy place!  :)


xoxo, Erin
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Time management binder

Time management.  It’s so important, isn’t it?  How we manage our time and what we do with it says a lot about who we are and what we prioritize.  Right now I’m in a stage of life where spare time is very limited.  I’m sure many of you can relate.  Since baby #3 came into my life (and completely rocked my world both for good and bad!) I have been on a quest to figure out a system that will help me organize my time and make the most out of every minute.  
First I’ll state the obvious.  I use a planner.  I actually bought two this year.  Not because I need them both, but because I bought the aqua one on the left and then the cover was bothering me so I went back to Target and bought the green one which is identical to the planner I had last year except it’s smaller.  I needed something that would fit in my purse.  I’m only using this planner for two things: to keep track of appointments and random activities, and to write specific to-do’s for each day.  Things that I have to do that day that are time sensitive (make a certain phone call, take Ellie to a birthday party, doctor appointments, etc).  Everything else in my brain gets dumped here:
I shared this binder with you in my post on paper organization, but I’ve changed things up a bit since then.  

This was how it used to be organized…

This is my binder now.  I’ve tweaked this binder so many times over the past year and finally feel like I have something that works well for me.  That’s the great thing about a binder like this.  You can customize it to meet your needs.  The important thing is having a place to “dump your brain” so that you don’t have to think about things anymore.  It’s all right in front of you.

First you need a cute cover page.  Ellie drew this picture of us under a rainbow.  She gave it to me in October, hence the ghost.  I think the two of us look simply stunning so I wanted it in a place I would see often.  :)  Once you have a cover page that makes you smile, you can focus on organizing the categories in your binder to make it work well for you.  Here is how I organized mine:

Week at a Glance On the first page in my binder (you can kind of see through the red folder above) I have the days of the week listed and set activities/things I need to remember.  These are things that always happen on that day each week.  Examples: the days my girls have library and need to take their books to school, the days they have activities like dance and gymnastics, the days it’s my turn to do pick-up because I carpool with neighbors.  I glance at this page each night before I go to bed to remember the set in stone things for the following day.  Then I look in my planner to see if there are any additional appointments or activities (there always are!) that fill up the rest of my day.  Now I know what the next day looks like for me.  This “week at a glance” page helps me a lot.  Now there will never be a time that I space a weekly activity or forget that I have after school pick-up.  My brain isn’t cluttered trying to remember the details of each day.  It’s written right in front of me!

Shopping for – My next tab is titled “shopping for” and this might seem a little crazy to some of you but here’s my deal.  I’m not good at meal planning.  I’m not one of those people who can plan out a weeks’ worth of meals and only go to the grocery store once.  I go to the grocery store about every three days which works fine for me because it’s close by and easy to pop in while the girls have dance class or after I take them to a friends’ house.  My other issue is that I buy my groceries/household items at three different stores – grocery store, Target, and Costco.  I also always have items I always need/want at the mall and other random places so here’s what works for me:

Sticky notes!  I always have four on a page.  These are my “running lists” of things I need to buy.  The great thing about using sticky notes is that when it’s time to make a Target run I can just pull off my Target sticky note and toss it in my purse so I don’t forget anything.  I know this wouldn’t work for someone who has a long list of groceries, but like I said, I go often so this works for me.

Current Projects – A list of the current projects I’m working on.  These are things that I’m focusing on right now so currently I have my “to organize” list on the top page and a few other projects that are in the works on the following pages.

When Kole is napping and I find myself with a little free time, I glance at my planner to see if there is something that HAS to get done.  If not (or once those to-do’s are checked off) I turn to this “current projects” section of my binder and work on something here.

Future Projects – Any time I have an idea for a project – a gallery wall somewhere in the house, a lemonade stand for the girls, what ever it is – this is where I write it down.  Just ideas for now.  But someday they will be moved to “current projects.”

Post Ideas – This is where I tend to “dump my brain” the most.  Ideas for blog posts are always popping into my head.  When I’m exercising, when I’m driving, when I’m typing another blog post!  The ideas are never ending.  Finding the time to implement all of my ideas is another story.  But at least I have a set place to write them all down!

Post Schedule – This is a category I’m trying for the first time this year.  The two areas of my life I’m NOT organized in – meal planning (cause I hate cooking so planning to cook just isn’t appealing) and my blog!  I am so fly by the seat of my pants where this blog is concerned.  I never know what I’m going to post until I sit down the night before.  I look at my recent pictures and somehow always manage to come up with something.  I know bloggers who are so organized!  Have their posts planned and typed out a week or two in advance.  Wow.  That would be nice.  While I don’t think that will realistically happen for me (and in some ways I enjoy blogging present time anyway) I would like to be a little more organized in this area.  I just have a blank calendar page for each month in this section of my binder where I can jot down an idea of what to post each day.

Birthdays – I like to keep a list of each month and any birthdays I need to remember.  I know this information pops up on facebook and your cell phone and all over the place, but I like a written list in my binder so that I can plan ahead.  I glance at it at the beginning of each month so that I know who I need to get gifts for and when I need to deliver or mail them.

Miscellaneous Information – I always have a “random” spot in my binder for those extra items that always pop up.  I love my current tab dividers (from Target) that have a folder included on each one so that I have a place to store any papers/forms I need to keep close by.  This is where I also have a list of my goals for the year.

That’s it for my time management binder!  I know this is custom to me and my needs, but hopefully it still gave a few of you some ideas for how you could make something like this work for you.  I’m a firm believer in dumping your brain out on paper!   Life is busy and I’ve learned I just can’t rely on my memory for everything.  If something doesn’t get written down, it doesn’t get done.

And since we’re talking binders, here are a couple more I also keep close by:

I have a spot in my binder that reminds me of birthdays and other days I want to remember, but last year when I saw this book in Hallmark I just couldn’t resist buying it.  

It has tabs for each month of the year.

Then when you open each tab it not only has a place to write down birthdays, but it also has a pocket to hold cards.  I love this because I always buy multiple cards at a time.  (I do this because picking out cards is SO hard to do with little ones!  If I am ever in a Hallmark by myself I stock up!)  If I see a card I love for my dad, I buy it, even if his birthday is months away.  I save it in his birthday month pocket and then when his birthday comes rolling around I’m prepared!  I still like having my binder list for a quick glance because my binder is always with me and I keep this card book upstairs.  A book like this would be SO easy to make on your own.  Just buy a binder and tabs and use it the same way!

And of course there is my home decor binder that I LOVE looking through and adding to.  
(Full post on my Home Decor binder here.)

It’s kind of like Pinterest – only old school.  :)

What can I say?  I’m a binder girl.  They really do help me manage my time.  For more tips on time management, you can check out this previous post I wrote.  It includes some other tips that have really helped me make the most of my time.  And on that note, time to wrap this up!  I have a “current projects” list that needs my attention while a certain someone is sleeping!
Have a great week everyone!  
xoxo, Erin
Addison

Fashion Friday

Weekend is here!  And it’s about time!  Kenny was in San Francisco this week for work so I was flying solo.  Not for too long, but it felt LONG.  Kenny works an insane amount of hours so even when he’s here I’m flying solo most of the time BUT he is usually home in time to put the kids to bed (even if he starts working again soon after) AND he always takes the girls to school in the morning.  Man.  We were thrown for a loop without that little bit of assistance in the morning.  Kids didn’t want to wake up, I’m running in circles trying to fix breakfast, pack lunches, sign homework, feed-change-entertain Kole, do hair…and wait…now I have to be ready?  And by ready I mean out of my pajamas because that’s about as far as I went.  Finally got the kids loaded in the car – we’ve got 10 minutes till the bell rings – the girls are yelling “we didn’t brush teeth!”  I’m chucking breath mints at them and yelling “eat this and call it good!”

But we made it.  Kids were a little late, teeth weren’t quite as clean, and mom was a little frazzled, but we made it.  Addison was frustrated with me.  Not only did I not take the “super secret passageway” to the school (I guess Kenny goes down a different road with them?) but after I dropped her off I didn’t say “meet you at the window” and then blow kisses at her through her classroom window like daddy does.  Come to think of it, I got a lot of “that’s not how daddy does it!” while he was away.  We clearly have our routines and roles.  And daddy is irreplaceable.  And mommy is tired.  :)

So yes!  I’m ready for the weekend!  Even though it’s a busy one, Kenny will be around for it.  

Just a couple things I wore this week:

Top is from The Limited, belt is from Forever 21.  We have been having the best non-humidity filled days and my hair and I are loving it!  

Sometimes when I wear this top I switch out the belt for this necklace.  I was looking at this picture thinking that looks so familiar.  Have I already posted me in that shirt and necklace?  So I looked a few months back and found these Fashion Friday pictures:

HA!  Different top and necklace but they might as well be the exact same!  I’m nothing if not predictable.  

This happens all the time.  I have so many similar things in my closet!  I seriously think I have over ten tops in this exact color of teal.  The funny thing is that I’ll try to break out of my shell and buy something I normally wouldn’t wear but it always backfires.  Because then I just don’t wear it.  Anyone else that way?

We had one cold day this week and I wore this sweater from Express (bought it two years ago and I’ve only worn it a few times – I’m usually sweating in it by noon).  Cream, big neck, belt — also matching 10 other things in my closet.  :)  

Here’s a new sweater I bought on my New York trip last October.  I’ve had fun trying this on over different shirts.  One of my favorite looks is this one (two shades of brown).
And remember this top from The Limited last spring?  Also worn here with the Forever 21 belt.

I love the sweater over it too.  Who says you can’t wear yellow in January?  Speaking of yellow, I went shopping last week (mall gift certificate from Santa is burning a hole in my purse) and there were so many FUN yellow things I wanted to buy!  I came awfully close to buying this skirt and this jacket.  But then I remembered that I already have this yellow jacket:

Does a person need more than one yellow jacket? 
I’m beginning to think this person does.  :)  Look how happy I am in that picture!?  Clearly the yellow jacket is the reason for my smile.  Maybe the fact that my kids were with Kenny and I was having girl time with my friends is another reason for my smile, but you better believe the jacket played a part.  And who says you can’t wear yellow in January?  (I already asked that question, didn’t I?)
Well, it’s an important one.  
Have a great weekend everyone!  
Kiss your husband and wear something yellow.  
That’s what I plan to do.  :)
**Linking up @ The Pleated Poppy
xoxo, Erin
Blogging

Stop! I’m blushing!

Just popping in quick today to share some fun news!  Better Homes and Gardens featured my Valentines mantel on their website!  So exciting!  When I got the e-mail a few months ago asking if they could feature my mantel I think my jaw hit the table.  I clicked the Better Homes and Gardens link about five times to make sure it was really them!  (Move over Martha!)

You can check out the feature and see other fun Valentine mantels here.
The link to my full post on my Valentine mantel from last year is here.  
Although I’m working on mixing it up a bit this year.  :)

I’ve also been noticing a lot of traffic coming to my little blog from Pinterest.  Yes.  Pinterest.  That beloved site that has changed all of our lives.  Mostly by zapping away all of our time.  ;)  Yesterday I landed on the link to all of the pictures people have recently pinned from my site.  Now THAT was fun.  I’m thrilled and flattered that so many of you are pinning my ideas.  It truly makes me so happy!  In fact I was so excited about it that last night I did a little celebration dance in the living room.  (I know – you’re all so sad you missed that one.)  I said to Kenny “I’m getting pinned!!”  He gave me that look.  The one I so often get that says I have no idea what you’re talking about but I’m not about to ask because I don’t think I really want to know.  I know his looks well.

If you’re a Pinterest fan like myself, you can see what has recently been pinned from 
Sunny Side Up here.
Ok.  All of this excitement has worn me out.  I’m off to bed.
Thanks for the happy dance.
:)
xoxo, Erin
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Organization: Current List/Stuffed Animals

First step to getting organized: make a list.  Here is my current “spaces/items to organize” list:
-scrap space (clear room for project life!)
-kole’s drawers/closet (go through clothes)
-girls’ book shelf
-addie’s closet/drawers
-ellie’s drawers (go through clothes)
-laundry room cupboards
-kids’ bath toys
-girls’ toy kitchen (scary stuff hiding in that microwave!)
-my bedroom hutch
-my dresser
-my closet (go through clothes)
-my bathroom drawers/cupboards
-nightstand drawers
-closet under stairs 
-stuffed animals
I just walked through my house and wrote down every space that could use a little “sprucing up.”  Some of these areas have already been organized and just need a touch up.  Some of them (hello my mess of a closet) need a major overhaul.  Having a list makes it feel manageable.  Now I can just work on spaces whenever I have a minute and happily check off my list.  
A few posts back one of my cute Virginia friends (hi Lucy!) asked me what I do with my stuffed animals.  She was wondering how to organize them since her daughter loves them all.  Well – it was perfect timing because that very day I had come up with what to do with our crazy amount of stuffed animals.  And I have the SAME problem Lucy.  After years of birthday parties and holidays and trips and surprises for good behavior and grandparent visits and weak moments in Target – we now have a crazy amount of stuffed animals and dolls.  My girls truly CHERISH each and every one of them.  They also truly play with and take care of each and every one of them.  

I used to keep stuffed animals in these baskets in the playroom.  

But lately they have been filled with my little man’s treasures.  And truth be told, our crazy amount of stuffed animals/dolls weren’t fitting well in this spot anyway.  

So one afternoon the girls and I went in every room and rounded them all up.  I boxed up and stored all of the Christmas stuffed animals with our Christmas decor in the garage because it’s more fun if those toys are only pulled out in December.  The girls were so stressed about the rest of their “friends.”  (They know all too well what happens when mom starts making piles.)  I promised that I wasn’t getting rid of anything and explained to them that we just don’t have the space to have all of these “friends”out right now.  I had them choose a handful to keep out to play and sleep with and I assured them that the rest of them would be close by.  

A while ago I got the comforter on my bed dry cleaned and when I picked it up it was in this fabulous heavy duty clear sack.  I knew I could find a way to use that sack so I hung onto it.  As soon as I saw the crazy amount of stuffed animals/dolls I needed to store, I knew just what would hold them!  Problem was that I only had one and that baby filled up fast!  So I went back to the dry cleaners. 
And I asked them for two more sacks.  Kenny should be thrilled.  I didn’t spend a dime.  (Did you read that babe!?  I didn’t spend a dime!!)  That’s a first for me.  :)  I’ll tell you why this was the perfect solution (aside from the fact that it was a free solution).  I needed something that wouldn’t break/tear easily.  I also needed something see through because now when my girls want to locate a certain “friend” it will be easy to find instead of using black garbage bags that we would be dumping out all over the floor every other week.  
They also have this really great handle so they are easy to move around.  

Another spot that has been organized before and just needed some “sprucing up” was the closet under my stairs.  This spot always becomes my catch all for any and everything when I get busy.  And December was insanely busy.  Just 20 minutes and this closet went from the picture above…
to this.  I cleaned out all of the files so our paper organization hub is ready for 2012!  

Then I cleaned out space in the back of our closet to make room for the stuffed animals.  

Now they are still with us, but not all over my house.  When the girls want to get out some new “friends,” they are easy to pull out and find.  The rule is that if they are taking some out, they are putting some back in.  Of course, if there are a few toys that never get pulled back out… well… let’s just say I don’t have the same problem my girls do “letting go.”  I know this isn’t a perfect solution, but I think it will work great for us.  (Hope that helps Lucy!)

So I’m feeling good!  Two items checked off my list!  That’s a good thing.  Lots still left to organize.

But that’s a good thing too.  :)  
xoxo, Erin
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Getting and Staying Organized

So it’s January.  When I was younger I didn’t love January.  January meant that the holidays were over – and I do love the holidays.  But as soon as I became a wife and a mom and started creating a home for my family, I grew to love January.  January represents a fresh start.  It’s a time for new goals.  It’s a time to get your life in order.  A time for getting and staying organized.  :)  It’s the one month of the year that people everywhere get the itch to do what I have the itch to do year round!  So in honor of my new favorite month, I’m re-posting my tips for getting and staying organized.  I’ll also be sharing lots of organizing inspiration throughout this beloved month.  And of course – throughout the rest of the year as well.  :)  So read this post and then get off your computer and tackle an un-organized spot in your home.  I just know you’ll be glad you did!

{Getting organized}
1) Don’t let organizing your home overwhelm you. The thought of organizing your whole house can be so overwhelming. Don’t let it be. Start small. Pick one drawer or area that’s really bothering you and start there. One way of tackling your house is to walk around and make a list. (I just love lists, don’t you?) Write down the spaces in each room that need to be organized and then pick one space/cupboard/drawer to work on whenever you have a minute. (I often organize while making phone calls.) Don’t start a new project until that space is finished. Just having a list will take some of the overwhelmed feeling away. Now your goals are written down and you have a place to start.


2) Use your space wisely. I store a lot of my holiday decor in high spots above closets because I only get them out once a year. On the other hand, my children’s most often used toys and games are stored low where it’s easy to get to them.

 

3) Give everything in your house a home. If you have created a specific place for everything in your home it’s much easier to put things away where they belong.

Once you’ve made a home for everything, labels are a great way to help you remember where things belong.

4) Organize things in a way that makes sense for your family and the way you live. For example, for a long time I had all of our baking supplies (flour, sugar, etc.) on the main shelf in my pantry. I also had a whole shelf dedicated to cook books. Cook books that had a layer of dust on them. I’ll be honest, I don’t love to cook and with my kids around, we are reaching for the crackers and pasta more than anything else in our pantry. It makes sense for us to have those items on the easy to reach middle shelf in the pantry and the baking goods up higher for the rare occasion that I actually use them. (I tossed out all my cook books except one or two that are stored in a drawer.) Someone who cooks and bakes a lot would organize their pantry another way. Websites and magazine articles are great places to get organization ideas, but don’t just copy what someone else is doing. Organize your home in a way that is functional for the way you live and it will be much easier to keep things organized.

5) The most important thing to remember when organizing: If you want to be organized, you have to be able to let things go. Get rid of it! Seriously. You’ve maybe heard “when in doubt, don’t.” Well my motto with organizing is “when in doubt…DO!” If you’re not sure about whether or not you can part with something, trust me, you can. You might think “what if I need this someday?” Chances are you won’t, but what if you did? Would it be so awful if you got some flowers and needed that vase you’d been storing for three years and then trashed? Could you put the flowers in something else you had on hand? What about your closet? Are you saving clothes for when you lose weight? If you lose weight you’re going to buy new jeans, not wear the ones you’ve been saving for four years since you had a baby. Get rid of it! When keeping things for “sentimental value,” be smart. Do you really need to save every drawing your kindergartner comes home with? Would one or two be enough to remind you of her year in school…or even better, a picture of several of her drawings for her scrapbook?  Being able to let things go is so invigorating! It’s just stuff. And we’re always buying new stuff. Less really is more. Use the space in your house to keep only the things that you use or love.

{Staying organized}
1) Teach your family the importance of having a clean, organized home. If your family isn’t on board, forget about it! There is only one you and you will never be able to keep things organized on your own. Teach your kids how to put things away in the place you’ve created for them. My girls know that when it’s clean up time there is a select place for their barbies, books, dress-ups, etc. Time and time again I have gone over where we keep their things so that now it is second nature for them to put things where they belong. {Getting them to do this without being asked? Don’t have the answer for that one. :)} Assign clear responsibilities for keeping the house clean and give consequences when they’re not accomplished. (My girls’ toys get taken away if they aren’t put back where they belong.)

2)  Take the initiative to put things away where they go and teach your family to do the same. Keeping something organized takes constant work and upkeep. Once you’ve organized and made a place for something, put things away in that place! How many time do we set something down and think, “I’ll just put this here for now.” Resist the urge! It usually takes only a few seconds longer to put something away it its place vs. just setting it somewhere it doesn’t belong. Not procrastinating and consistently putting things away where they belong will lead to a clean, organized home.

3) Take a minute to straighten up your organized space the second it starts looking messy. If you do this, you will avoid having to completely re-organize your home time and time again. My fridge, for the most part, stays clean and organized. That is because every time I buy groceries, I do a “mini cleaning”. I pull out things that are getting old, wipe off a shelf or two, put new groceries in their designated spot, etc. When Kenny comes in with the mail I immediately go through it, toss out the junk mail and file everything else – or I bug Kenny until he does it. (Being a great organizer sometimes means being a great nagger ;)

4) Think before you buy new things. When I’m about to make a new purchase, I always ask myself two questions: Do I have space for this? Is it something that I will really use or will it just be more clutter in a few weeks? Many times I have put something back after asking myself these two questions (especially when I’m about to buy the girls a new toy!). Thinking ahead about how you’ll organize new things you buy will not only help you keep your house clutter free, it will also help you make smart purchases.

5) Choose every day to stay organized. Keeping things organized is a daily choice we make. It’s just like choosing what to eat. If you want to be healthy, you have to change the way you eat. You have to consistently make healthy food choices. Just like you can’t participate in a one time diet and expect to always stay thin, you can’t organize a closet and then pat yourself on the back and expect it to magically stay that way. (I know this because I’ve tried!) You have to consistently put things away where they go and take that extra minute to keep everything organized.

When your house is full of clutter so is your brain. Simplifying your home will bring so much peace. Life will run more smoothly and you’ll have more time and energy to focus on what’s really important – your family – the very ones who make it so incredibly difficult to keep things organized! :)

Happy Organizing Everyone!

p.s.  Want to see how I organize my home?  
Click on the sun below for links to all of my organized spaces.

xoxo, Erin
fashion2

Fashion Friday

Thanks so much for all of the Project Life feedback!  I loved reading all of your comments and hearing the different ways you are making Project Life (or any other scrapbooking system) work for you.  As soon as I figure out the direction I’m taking with Project Life you’ll all be the first to know!  ;)
I’m so ready for the weekend.  Was it just me or was it hard getting back into the swing of things after Christmas break?  
(horrible lighting – on our way to a Christmas party last month)
I have to admit, I got pretty comfortable with lazy days in pajamas and no schedule.  Plus I was kind of missing my girls this week.  Usually we are all ready for school to start after a vacation but we had such a fun break together.  I missed cuddling in bed with them in the morning.  I missed hearing them playing with their dolls.  I missed turning on Rudolph during lunch.  And I really missed having them around to entertain Kole!  In some ways it’s easier to have them all three home vs. just being home with my little boyfriend.  Have I mentioned before that he keeps me hopping?  Because I don’t think I’ve made that very clear.  And I would hate for that little tidbit to be missing from our family history.  KOLE IS CRAZY BUSY.  There.  Now it’s clear.  :)
Couple things I’ve been wearing lately –  

My favorite scarf!  I know I’ve shown it before, but I’m showing it again.  We are tight.  Thick as thieves.  I wore this and the grey scarf a lot in December.  They just seem to go well with everything.  Probably because I buy so many boring solid color tops, but now I know why I do.  All of my life I’ve been preparing my wardrobe for these scarves!

Our climate hasn’t been as humid lately so I’ve been doing my hair straight for a change.  Always nice to mix things up.  

I think I’ve shared this top before too, but not with these fun earrings.  Love these double oval hoops!  They seem to add just a bit of sass to any outfit.  And I like a little sass in my life. 
I’ve also been wearing new shoes thanks to Santa!  Actually these Ugg boots weren’t from Santa, they were from Kenny.  Actually they weren’t from Kenny.  Well, they were “technically” from Kenny but since I’m the one who bought them and wrapped them and put them under the tree I could probably say that they were a little Christmas gift to me from me.  Kenny came home one night in December and I said “You bought me Uggs for Christmas and they’re already wrapped and under the tree.  Thanks babe!  They are just what I wanted and I love them SO much!!”  I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again.  He’s lucky to have me.  
Now I can wear my heeled boots on date nights or to special events…  

and my grey Uggs during cold days when I’m running around with the kids.  

The only problem?  We haven’t been having cold days.  In fact, this week has been downright hot!  Our temperatures usually stay around the low 70’s all year long along the coast, but this week we have almost hit 80 degrees every day!  I know – I can’t complain, especially since most of you are freezing right now, but sometimes it just feels so weird!  Beach weather in January!?  We all love the sunny, warm weather here, but in January you kind of want it to be cold.  At least a little.  At least cool enough that you can wear the new Uggs you got for Christmas.  Or sip some hot chocolate.  Or curl up under a blanket by the fire.  Or stay in doors organizing everything.  But nope.  Everyone is outside!  Getting sunburned while they take down their Christmas lights.

 I tried at the beginning of the week to still wear clothes that look a little wintery-ish.  

Dark colors, short sleeves with turtle necks.  

This top is fun.  I bought it at Banana Republic a couple of years ago and I love the buttons on the neck. Most of the time I wear it buttoned up, but you can also undo some of the buttons and wear it down.  Optionality.  One of my favorite words.  
By the end of this week I had completely given up on trying to look wintery-ish. I pulled out my summer stuff and joined the warm weather party.  And while I’m not wearing my new Uggs I got for Christmas,  or sipping hot chocolate, or curling up under a blanket by the fire, I am still staying indoors organizing everything.   Some things never change.  Regardless of the weather.  
Happy January everyone!  See you at the beach!  
(Or maybe at The Container Store!)
:)
**Linking up at The Pleated Poppy
xoxo, Erin
Scrapbooking

Project Life 2012

A lot of buzz is going on in blog land about Project Life – as it always is this time of year.  Those of you who have followed my blog for a while now know that I am a huge fan and have been using Becky’s Project Life kits to create albums for my kids for the past couple of years.  I never followed the “picture a day” concept, although I think it’s brilliant.  For me, I just wanted a simple way to create something special for each of my kids.

Albums that would document our family traditions,  
the funny things my kids do and say, 

close family relationships,

and all of the fun we are having together. 
Albums that would include special artwork,

special vacations and memories,

and special family moments.
  
I wanted albums that could be low maintenance, just slip in a picture and some journaling, but something that would also allow me to be more creative when I found the time.  The Project Life system has worked beautifully for me and I cherish the albums I’ve created so far.  So does the rest of my family.  
BUT.  At this very moment I find myself a bit unsure.  Unsure about my Project Life scrapbooking plan for 2012.  
Last February I asked Kenny for three new Project Life kits for Valentines Day (two Amber Editions for each of my girls and the Turquoise Edition for Kole).  Aside from looking through them last February, they have sat untouched.  The problem?  I now have THREE children to scrapbook for and even LESS time to scrapbook.  I finished up some school pages for my girls last summer and haven’t had two seconds to even think about scrapbooking since.  Well.  I’m ready to think about it again and here are some of the questions and answers going through my mind:
– Three albums is A LOT to take on right now.  I’ll never be able to keep up.  Should I just do ONE family album?  But I love that my kids have their own albums with their own stories being told.  THEY love that they have their own albums.  It’s my gift to them.  I could do just one digital Project Life album that I could make copies of for each child?  But creating a digital album wouldn’t be an enjoyable process for me.  I don’t want to spend more time on the computer.  I LOVE the creative process of putting together an album with real pictures and real handwriting and real memorabilia that you can see and touch and remove.  Their albums are also where I keep their special school and art work.  How would that work in a family album?  Or a digital album?  
– Ok.  So I clearly need to keep doing one album per child.  But I need to find a way to simplify.  Less pictures for sure.  Maybe a layout for each month?  
– And since I’m a year behind should I start where I left off?  Or just start with current pictures and hope to someday go back and finish up the lost year?  I’ll most likely never get to it.  But if I start where I left off will I ever get on top of things?  
I don’t know the answers to these questions.  What I do know is that I need to come up with a system that is enjoyable, simple, and DOABLE for me or it just isn’t going to happen at the stage of life I’m in right now.  
Why didn’t any of you warn me that keeping up with three kids would be so much work!!??  ;)
Are YOU doing Project Life this year?  I’d love to hear any thoughts, suggestions, or how you are making it work for your family.
p.s.  You can see all of my past Project Life layouts here.  
xoxo, Erin
Christmas

Organizing Christmas Decor

Sharing how I organize all of our Christmas stuff today.  It’s never as fun to put away as it is to set up, is it?  But even so, it always feels good to have Christmas put away and a nice clean house to start the New Year.  
I store most of my indoor decorations in trunks.  The trunks I own are family heirlooms.  They are antiques that were re-stored by my great Aunt and Uncle and they are priceless to me.    My mom has quite a collection of them herself and I’ve been working on getting my hands on a few of those as well.  C’mon mom.  It’s time to cave and hand over the coffee table trunk.  We both know I’m your favorite.  (Now let’s hope my siblings aren’t reading this.  Pretty sure they’re not since it’s an organizing post and they aren’t interested in organizing.  I know.  How is that possible, right!!?)  Back to the trunks – I have one in my living room and one in my family room and they are perfect for  storing all of my indoor Christmas decor.  I have a goal to fit most of my decor in these two trunks so every year I buy a few new things and then send a few older items to Goodwill to make room for the new.  I store most of my decor for my living room in the trunk in the living room and most of my decor for my family room in the trunk in my family room.  Naturally.  :)
I bought this red ornament box from The Container Store years ago and it has been perfect to house all of my Christmas tree decorations.  I couldn’t find this exact one on-line, but here is something similar.  It came with card board dividers so I place all of my round ornaments on the bottom…

and then place this red fabric board in between…
and then I have a new level to work with!  One of the best organizers ever.  

Some years I’ve divided the top up using all of the slots to store ornaments, 

but this year I took some of the cardboard dividers out to make bigger slots for certain things.  I love an organizer that you can adjust to fit your needs.  
The rest of our Christmas tree decor!  Along with a few Christmas cookie cutters.  
That haven’t been used.  And most likely never will be.  
Then I put on the lid to the box and pile things next to it…
and on top of it.  

A simple plastic zip pouch holds our Christmas cards for my photo garland.

I use the trunk in our family room to store all of our Christmas books…

along with other odds and ends that I display in this room.  

I use a couple of Christmas boxes to house smaller items…  

and then I pile on things like our Christmas tree skirt and stockings.  
Something I’ve done for years is to place the fragile items inside of the Christmas tree skirt and stockings.  Each of our stockings hold small, breakable items.   
I have a red CD case that holds all of our Christmas CD’s that also goes in this trunk so that our tunes are easily accessible when December rolls around… or November… ok October.  I’ll admit, I usually break out the Christmas music sometime in October.  I can’t help it.  Those Chipmunks call my name every year.  :)

I usually store our Christmas movies in this trunk also, but I set them aside with our other DVD’s in the garage until I can get to them.  The DVD’s are on my “to organize this year” list and I think it’s time for the cases to finally go.  There are just too many movies in this house.  I could solve that problem by not buying anymore, but where’s the fun in that?  Sounds much more appealing to just come up with a cool way to organize them all.  :)
Feels good to have all of the outside lights taken down too.  We put up A LOT of outside lights each year because I love them.  One of Kenny’s most favorite things to do.  ;) 

I wish I had something amazing to show you for how we store our outside lights, but my system (if you can call it that) is pretty basic.  I know there are so many ways to keep lights from tangling, but I’ve found that if I wrap them up carefully (loop them in a circle) as I take them off of the bushes and just place them on top of each other they’re fine.  I’ve been doing it like this for years and my lights are always tangle free!

Step two in my ever so intricate system is to then place the lights in garbage bags with labels.  Tape and a black marker work fine for this job.  I mark the bags according to where we place the lights (top of house, front bushes, bottom of Bougainvillea vine, etc. Makes it really easy for set-up when Christmas rolls around again.  Then all of the bags go in a huge box in our garage marked “outdoor lights.”  Like I said, it’s a pretty intricate system so I hope I haven’t lost you all on that one.  I also hope you know I’m being sarcastic.  
Good-bye Frosty!  Already looking forward to pulling you out again next year!!  
xoxo, Erin

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