Clean brushes and blog headers
It says you should wash your brushes out every two months. Oops. I think I may have gone a bit longer than two months in between washings. (Maybe two years?)
Then I figured while I was at it I’d clean my make-up brushes too. Those I actually DO clean every couple of months. Just rub a little shampoo into the brush and they clean up beautifully. Nothing like starting the day with clean brushes! Thought I’d share in case there is anyone else out there who (like me) needs a nudge to clean out their brushes. :)
Oh! By the way… I’ve had a lot of questions lately on how I make my blog headers and buttons for the sidebar of my blog. I explained it a while back in this post: BLOG HEADERS. Aside from explaining how I create headers you can also take a look back at all of my headers I’ve created since I started blogging (I just updated this post). Except for my Winter 2011 header. It’s lost somewhere on my computer and it’s driving me nuts that I can’t find it! I’m off to continue hunting it down. I don’t handle things being out of order very well. :) Anyway – clean your brushes and make a blog header. Or don’t. Either way – have a great Thursday!
New Buttons and a Carpool Party
Let’s talk jeans
Alright ladies. Â Let’s talk jeans! Â If you’ve read my blog for a while you know that I have a minor (ok – major) obsession with designer jeans. Â Kenny gave me my first pair for Valentines Day four years ago and I’ve said before that if he only knew what he was getting himself into he would have opted for chocolate instead! Â :) Â Since I started writing my Fashion Friday posts, I’ve have received many e-mails asking me jean related questions (mostly regarding designer jeans). Â I’m certainly not claiming to be any sort of jean expert, but I’m happy to share my favorite designer jeans along with a few overall jean tips I have learned along the way. Â Fun!
First of all I just want to say that I know not everyone is in a place financially where they can afford to buy designer jeans. Â When Kenny and I were living in Virginia while he was going to Law School I was working three jobs (teaching school, tutoring kids after school, and working nights at a clothes store in a mall) just so we could pay our bills and keep our debt down. Â We would go grocery shopping late at night and see the “Night Help Wanted” sign on the grocery store door and he’d tease me about applying because who needs sleep and I could sure use another job. Â I know. Â Hilarious right? Â At least he amuses himself. Â One morning my $5 eye liner from Walmart broke and I totally started bawling! Â I knew I’d have to wait a week until I got paid again to get new eyeliner. Â So yeah, even though I’m not there now, I’ve been in a place where $200 jeans would have been out of the question. Â And I don’t think that you have to have $200 jeans to look good. Â Hardly. Â BUT. Â If you are in a place financially where you can splurge on something for your wardrobe and you are like me and live in your jeans, I do think that designer jeans are well worth the money.
So what’s so great about designer jeans that makes them worth the money? Â Try a few pairs on and you’ll quickly find out. Â Great material with just the right amount of stretch. Â Designer jeans are tailored to fit your body so much better than regular jeans. Â The bottom line is that they accentuate the good and improve the bad! Â And if you find the right pair for your body, you will look so fabulous in them that you will never want to take them off!
Here are my favorite brands of designer jeans (click on each link to check them out – affiliate links used):
These are three different styles of Sevens. Â The the pair on my right was my first pair of designer jeans. Â I’ve had them for almost four years and they still look good! Â Sevens are my favorite designer jeans and the reason I love them so much is because they work the best on my body type. Â The pockets always have fun designs and they are flat which helps minimize the booty. Â Which is good for me. Â And for my booty. Â :)
Hudson is another great brand and they are extremely popular. Â They are known by the flap button pocket on the back. Â These seem to be a great pair of jeans that look good on almost anyone. Â They sit at a good place on your waist, the low pockets are flattering (they practically cut your booty in half!) and the boot cut at the bottom makes your thighs appear thinner. Â Always a bonus, right?
The material used for Paige jeans is incredible! Â They do NOT feel like jeans at all. Â So soft and comfortable and they fit your body like a glove. Â I have worn my dark denim Paige skinny jeans more than any other pair this winter. Â They go with everything! Â Paige jeans sit a little higher up on your waist so you aren’t dealing with that annoying low rise. Â I don’t think Paige jeans make you look as fantastic on the back side as the two brands above, but they do have a flattering fit. Â And like I said, they are super comfortable. Â (**Side tip: A dark denim wash like this is extremely slimming! Â A must have in your wardrobe – especially for Fall/Winter.)
Joe’s are another great brand of designer jeans to check out. Â I couldn’t find a picture of me in my Joe jeans, but I have this pair of Joe capris that I LOVE and have lived in every summer for the past three years. Â Another brand that fits like a glove and are extremely flattering. Â (**Side tip for capris. Â They can make you look short which isn’t good, especially if you already are short like I am. Â :) Â Look for a pair that sits not too far up from your ankle and wear them with a heel or wedge – something that gives you some height and you’ll look longer and leaner.)
True Religions are another really popular, fun brand. Â I don’t own any True Religion pants, but I do own this pair of True Religion shorts. Â Definitely the most expensive pair of shorts I’ve ever bought. Â Definitely worth every penny. Â I have had these for four years! Â And have lived in them in the summer time. Â I’m thinking it’s time to replace them, but they have been a great summer staple. Â When I tried these on I hadn’t looked at the price tag. Â I saw my thighs in them and thought I am SO buying these! – then I saw the tag and gasped out loud. Â But it was too late. Â I’d already fallen in love. Â My thighs had never looked so thin! Â Notice the way the wash is darker on the inside and outside of my thighs. Â That and the thick stitching – which is signature True Religion – creates the illusion of a thinner thigh. Â I’ll take it! Â :)
There are so many amazing brands of designer jeans. Â The ones listed above are just the brands that I have grown to love. Â If you have another brand that you love, please share in the comments!
A few other jean related questions:
Any ideas on jeans for those of us who don’t love the ultra low waist?
I would recommend trying Paige and Joe’s for a higher waist line.
Any ideas on where to find jeans for less? Â
If you really want a pair of great fitting jeans, you are going to have to pay a bit more for them. Â One brand of jeans that aren’t quite as expensive that I love are called Silvers.
I bought this pair at Nordstrom and they were around $70. Â This picture is from 2009 and I still love these jeans. Â In fact, I wore them so much I wore a hole in one of the knees. Â :) Â Another tip for finding jeans for less is watching for sales. Â I buy most of my jeans at Nordstrom and I have found some great deals during their big Anniversary sales. Â My skinny Seven jeans that were regularly around $180 I bought for $100 during a sale. Â Now that was a happy day. Â :)
Do you ever get your jeans altered and does it look weird if they have to be hemmed?
This is a GREAT question!  I have had almost every pair of these jeans I shared altered!!  YES!! Alter your jeans!!  Most designer jeans are made super long so you find a pair that fits you great in the front and the back, and then you get the length altered.  I know.  It costs another 15-20 bucks, but when you are spending that much on jeans, what’s another $20 to make them fit you perfectly?  I have also had MANY jeans altered in my waist.  I find a pair that is flattering for my butt, and then have them taken in at the waist if they are too big there.  You don’t need to wear jeans that fit you great in one area and not the other.  One of Stacey and Clinton’s biggest tips on TLC’s What Not To Wear is to ALTER YOUR JEANS!  You can take them to any tailor’s or in stores like Nordstrom they have a tailor who works at the store that will do it for you.
**A few tips – When you are having the length hemmed, make sure to try them on for the tailor wearing the shoes you plan to wear most of the time with the jeans. Â In the picture above, these shoes are NOT the ones I had on when I got these jeans altered and you can tell the jeans are a bit too high for them. Â Jean length should barely touch the ground in the back. Â This makes you look taller and leaner. Â So I have different pairs of jeans that go with different shoes. Â Another tip is to WASH the jeans once before getting them hemmed so that they don’t shrink after you get them just the right length. Â Also, regarding designer jeans, it is always better to buy them a bit snug (try on a size smaller than you normally would). Â They stretch a lot when you wear them so it’s best for them to be a bit tight at first.
Nordstrom has a great selection of plus size jeans! Â You can find them here.
What are the most flattering, slimming jeans in your opinion? Â And do you think women with a little thicker legs should wear skinny jeans? Â If so, how do you think is the most flattering way to wear skinny jeans? Â
The most flattering, slimming jeans for me are Sevens, but that’s obviously not true for everyone. Â If you are ready to spend a little money on a great pair of jeans I would recommend trying on LOTS of brands. Â I seriously try on so many pairs when I’m looking for new jeans. Â Each brand and style fits differently and you’ll never know what you look the best in until you try them all out!
Good question about the skinny jeans! Â Skinny jeans DO tend to accentuate your legs and thighs and to be honest, when they first came out I swore I’d never wear them for that very reason! Â But even if you think your thighs are too heavy for them, I’d give them a chance. Â If you find a good pair that fits you well, skinny jeans can often be even more flattering than bootcut.
Another tip I’ve learned is to pair skinny jeans with some bigger boots. Â The boots help even things out and you aren’t seeing the jean tapper so small at the ankle which can make your thighs appear larger. Â In my opinion, that is the most flattering way to wear skinny jeans.
When I was pregnant with Kole I bought two pairs of jeans (one skinny and one boot cut) and the skinny jeans ended up being WAY more flattering than the bootcut jeans. Â I always paired them with boots and even though my thighs were getting bigger by the minute, the skinny jeans still looked better. Â :) Â (If you’re pregnant, you can read my tips for maternity clothes here.)
How do you keep your jeans looking crisp and wrinkle free?
I never dry my jeans in the dryer. Â I always wash them on cold and hang them to dry. Â As far as wrinkles, I can’t help you with that one. Â I have three kids and avoid ironing at all costs. Â My clothes are never wrinkle free! Â :)
Oh my goodness. Â That turned out to be a book. Â If you stuck with me through that post you are a champion. Â Or just really bored. Â ;) Â If you have any other jean tips to share, please do in the comments! Â Also, if you have any other jean related questions I’ll answer those in the comments too. Â Now go spend a fortune on jeans and look fabulous! Â You’re worth it!!
Good-bye Winter!
Took down…wait. I took this stuff down after Christmas. Oh well. It’s a winter picture too so why not toss it in the mix!
Kole and I may need to do a little “Spring spruce up” shopping. That’s right. My boy knows how to work the credit cards. Train them early. That’s what I always say. :)
Organized bookshelf & Girls’ Room
Hi friends! Popping in today to share a quick before and after. The girls’ school is having a used book sale so I decided it was time to tackle the bookshelf in their bedroom…
Um yeah. It has been a while since I straightened it out. It usually doesn’t look THAT bad, but for quite a while Kole was obsessed with pulling every single book out he could reach. After cleaning them up what felt like 4,000 times I finally just decided to leave things a mess (SO hard for me!) until he was over his mad “pull everything off the bookshelf” phase. Thankfully he hasn’t been as interested in this little activity lately so last week I pulled everything off the shelf and went through every single book. I have a huge sack of books to donate to the school and the favorites that made the cut?
Aside from simplifying our book collection, I wanted to organize the books a bit. I categorized them by hard cover, paper back, church books, old books, Golden books, Little Critter books, and the whole bottom shelf is dedicated to Kole’s books. I just stuck a small white sticker label below the books to categorize them. These labels come off easily. I wanted to do this more for me than the kids because when I’m ready to read to the girls I can now easily locate the book I want. I also won’t be scrambling to find the book I want for church each Sunday (I teach the Sunbeams – 3 year olds – in primary). And now Kole can tear through the bottom shelf and they are all books made for him. It has made story time for all three of my kids run much smoother!
I still need to tackle the older children’s books in our guest room, but it feels good to have this little project checked off the list!
A few of you have previously asked to see pictures of my girls’ room. I don’t have pictures of everything, but these are some random shots I was able to find that I took on different occasions. Most of the pictures I have are of their bunk beds.
Year 35 is off to a great start
I could use something fun to help corral them. :) I have a place to hang this in our current house, but I’m mostly excited about where I’m hanging it in my next house! It’s my first piece of furniture for my new scrapbook room/office!! So excited about that room. {btw Kenny – this has got to be one of my favorite pictures of you. Nothing like a man holding a beautiful organizer. ;) }
Something else very exciting happened on my birthday weekend extravaganza. We took the girls to the park and finally taught them how to ride their bikes without training wheels! I know my girls are a little old to just be learning this (especially Ellie) but we honestly have not had a free Saturday in SO long to practice with them. (I couldn’t teach them during the week because I always have Kole and he needs 24/7 supervision.) They did amazing and aside from a few crashes and spills that are part of bike riding territory, they had a blast and are were totally cruising around on their bikes minus the training wheels — with daddy running along side them the whole time. (Talk about a good workout for Kenny.)
A birthday dinner and new priorities
It’s really late because we couldn’t stop chatting tonight so my Fashion Friday jean post will have to wait until some time next week. I started working on it this afternoon when Kole was napping and then I got a call from our landscape architect and I spent the next two hours dealing with new house stuff. Thank goodness my girls can fend for themselves a lot of the time because designing this house has been a huge time commitment and I don’t see that changing any time soon! I am the busiest I have ever been right now (there is a lot of other stuff I’m dealing with regarding my little man but that is a post for another day!) so I’m warning you all that my posting schedule may be a bit more sporadic. Fashion Friday may pop up on a Tuesday – or not at all since most days lately I am running around in gym clothes and a pony tail. The only time I can handle new house stuff is during Kole’s nap and late after the kids go to bed which is also my only time to work on projects and to blog. :( I have to prioritize.
Here is a run down of my priorities right now – in the order I’m prioritizing them…
“How are you holding up!? How is Kole? Oh I wish I could be there to help more with him! You have GOT to take care of yourself Erin. If the mom goes down, everyone goes down. Are you getting enough sleep? Don’t stay up too late blogging! I don’t want to see that your post time is after midnight again! You’re going to get sick. Did I tell you that if the mom goes down, everyone goes down?”
“Yeah mom. You mentioned that…”
Ramblings – from Erin & Kole
Meet the newest member of the family! Isn’t she lovely!? She is from Pottery Barn and was my Valentine gift from Kenny this year. I may have e-mailed Kenny daily slightly hinted that I loved this lamp and begged and pleaded kindly suggested that he get it for me at some point. So when he saw it go on sale, he ordered it for me. He also bought me the Breaking Dawn DVD. I know. He was impressive this year! In fact, he made me feel pretty lame about what I bought him for Valentines Day – gift card to get the car washed. BORING! I’ll have to do better next year. Maybe Kenny wants a lamp from Pottery Barn? I bet he’d love that.
She is my inspiration for a little “Spring spruce up” going on around here. Wonder where she’ll go in the new house? Hmm.. maybe in the formal family room… next to the built-ins. Or maybe on the built-ins in our master bedroom? Built-ins! Built-ins! Built-ins! That feels so good! I may be banned from saying the word but Kenny never mentioned anything about typing it.
Looks like they’re having a tea party. With real water and everything. They sure seem to be having fun. Wonder if I should interrupt the party and show them some real fun? I can’t get enough of this little trick either!
And as you can imagine the picture taking stops at this point while mom deals with one big mess and two upset sisters.
Some News!

We took our parents to see the lot while everyone was in town for Ellie’s baptism. They loved it too and all had lots of input about the future guest room. :)
Another thing we love about this lot is the beautiful views we have. Kenny standing at the front of our lot…
and towards the back. He is showing the girls where the pool will be in an attempt to get them more excited about moving. They told him they can’t wait to swim in the pool on our lot. And then go back our current house to take a bath and go to bed. :)
As far as where we are in the process…it will be a long one. We have a great architect and have been working with him the past couple of months on the design. The floor plan came together so quickly. I have been dreaming about this house for so long now and knew exactly what my priorities were! The outside took a little longer and we are still making minor tweaks to the exterior. We are hoping to break ground sometime this summer and then it will take a year or so to build, so we still have a ways to go before this dream becomes a reality. But I have loved the process so far! It has been time consuming and at times it has been stressful (and we haven’t even started building yet!) but it has also been SO much fun. Kenny cares a lot about the yard and really that’s it. Everything else he is leaving up to me. He basically told me I could build an igloo if I wanted and he’d be happy. And it’s true. He is pretty easy to please when it comes to house styles. So this arrangement is working really well. Because I am getting exactly what I want. Isn’t that the way it always should be in a marriage? ;)
I’ve shared a lot of my projects with you on this blog and I am so excited to share my biggest project to date! Creating this house. And rest assured, it won’t be an igloo. :)
And how does Kole feel about all of this? First of all, he is THRILLED that in the near future he won’t have to have scrapbook supplies filling up his closet.
Recovering
Oh man. Crazy weekend. CRAZY! These three don’t stop. I’m in recovery mode. Dead to the world on my couch. Kenny is half asleep on his couch. We’ve hardly said a word tonight. We can’t talk. We have to conserve every ounce of energy possible. And store it away for next weekend.
Happy Monday!
Fashion Friday
It’s Friday!! Can I get a woot woot!! This week flew. I’m so glad the weekend is here. Isn’t Friday the best? I love the anticipation of the upcoming weekend… which usually turns out even busier than the week… but the anticipation of down time, whether it happens or not, sure feels nice.
Ok – first up on the fashion agenda – Some of you asked questions about the outfit I posted last Monday…
The simple cowl neck top is from Forever 21 (shock!) and the boots I bought at a specialty store that I honestly can’t remember the name of. The tag says Forever – not Forever 21 because they were a tad more than 20 bucks. :) Sorry that isn’t much help! I bought them in December when I was in a haze of Christmas shopping madness (because nothing calms the haze of Christmas shopping madness like making a little purchase for yourself) and I really didn’t pay attention to the store I found them in. I just saw them in a store window, decided I’d been a really good girl, tried them on and bought them in a matter of minutes. I’ve become a rather quick shopper. Before I had kids I used to browse for hours and take forever trying on and debating different options. Those days are long gone! I can’t begin to count the number of times I’ve been in a store with a toddler and half way through my browsing stopped and said, “we’re out of here. Done. Not happening today!”
And this outfit I know you’ve seen before, but since it has been “winter” around here I thought I’d share my favorite winter accessory.
And last but certainly not least, Miss Addison modeling her panda pajamas (Target baby!). And yes. She likes to wear hair accessories that match her pj’s. As soon as we are in for the day (sometimes as early as 4:00) we all put on our pj’s. Ellie and I are pretty casual, but not my Addison. This girl believes that style doesn’t stop. Not even for bedtime.
P.S. – I have had several requests to do a post about my favorite jeans. I guess since I’m just a tad obsessed with them? :) If you have a jean question let me know in the comments and I’ll do my best to answer it in next Fridays’ post.
P.P.S. – It’s March. :) :) :)















































































